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April 19, 4:24PM Why do men feel compelled to ask, "So, am I good at [insert sex act here]?" If you have to ask, you're probably mediocre, at best. When a woman volunteers the information that you did indeed rock her fucking world, that's how you know you done good, kid. Men need to stop fucking their egos, and start fucking women. CAN RELATE (17) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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What's with the attitude? The world is full of inexperienced men (and women) who are just trying to figure things out. Some of them are actually eager to please. Your hostility won't help.

as9 commented on Apr 19 12 at 4:31 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I guess it bothers me because they never seem to ask because they're concerned about my pleasure, but more so they can puff their chests out. I'm all for communication during sex, but don't ask me to validate your manhood hours after we've fucked.

OP commented on Apr 19 12 at 4:42 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

You've been fucking the wrong guys

asd commented on Apr 19 12 at 5:06 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

the question shouldn't be "was I good?" it should be "did you like that? how can I make it better for you?"OP phrased it in an overly antagonistic manner but she is right... some guys are more interested in bragging rights than in pleasing their partner.

iii commented on Apr 19 12 at 5:10 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

The OP makes a good point.I can understand her frustration and I am a man. Hopefully other men will take note. Well done OP.

MGW commented on Apr 19 12 at 5:30 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Why do women feel compelled to fake orgasms rather than be honest? The sword has 2 edges.

ass commented on Apr 19 12 at 10:43 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Women feel the need to fake orgasms for the exact same reason- men's fragile egos.

ki commented on Apr 19 12 at 11:52 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Take it as a way to open the converasation, a conversation that is hard to start. Your response should be, 'I really like it when you. . .' or 'Next time, we could try. . .' Give the guy a little bit of slack.

rm commented on Apr 20 12 at 11:21 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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