Nerve Dating Confessions
April 12, 1:35AM There's this guy I really like. For our first date we went out drinking. I was nervous so I drank too much. I kept talking about riding horses on the beach. WTH? I've never ridden a horse in my life. We went back to his place, and I puked all over him and his apartment. I was incontinent ( just a little, I don't think he noticed). I spent the rest of the night with my head in the toilet. I'm sooo embarrassed. He hasn't called or texted since. Did I ruin things with him? #needadvice CAN RELATE (2) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE
Comment (4)

4 comments

uhhhhh.... I dunno, what do you think?! Seriously. Its nice, when you do something super embarrassing, to kind of protect yourself from feeling the full terror. My recommendation is take this as a lesson to relax a little bit, because clearly you tried to drink to overcompensate and things went REALLY BAD!

@op commented on Apr 12 12 at 2:13 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

If it were me (and it's not me - that's never happened to me) then yeah, you blew it. Unless you're super charming, smart, and really hot, if I were in his shoes I would now think of you as drunk and pukey girl.

wb commented on Apr 12 12 at 8:46 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Yes, yes you did.

Jf commented on Apr 12 12 at 1:44 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I'm sure you've done this, but you need to apologize and then DROP IT. Continuing to discuss it will only make matters worse. If you feel inclined, maybe you should write him a short note/email/text (whatever is your style) to say, "I'm sincerely sorry for what happened last night. I started on the wrong foot, and would like to make it up to you." Then put some effort into this next date, and loose the alcohol. Show him who you really are. Good luck!

SIC commented on Apr 12 12 at 2:01 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Leave a Comment


We are ardently committed to free expression, but we do expect Nerve visitors and contributors to interact respectfully and responsibly. Blatant expressions of bigotry, sexism or hatred may be constitutionally protected on the street corner, but they're not cool here.

Nerve Dating Confessions is an anonymous forum for dating-related posts. Posts that attack individuals by name, include personal information, contain hate speech, or are simply unrelated to dating, will be deleted.