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April 1, 10:26PM At what point is my desire to be dominated in bed destructive to my relationship? Please advise! #discuss #needadvice Thank you! CAN RELATE (2) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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When your partner doesn't want to be submissive.

Duh commented on Apr 1 12 at 10:31 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Unless you're being taken advantage of, I don't see the problem.

gff commented on Apr 1 12 at 10:38 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I'm the sub in the bedroom. Everything is consensual-I'm just wondering if there is something wrong with me being excited by rough behavior from a man.

sub commented on Apr 1 12 at 10:40 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

As you describe it, it is always destructive. For you the fetish is more important than the partner, which means that you have a "relationship" with your fetish, not your partner, and your fetish indeed prevents you from having a relationship with your partner, and that's probably why you need it.

blx commented on Apr 2 12 at 7:40 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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