Nerve Dating Confessions

Sounds like you need to have a talk with your boyfriend about respecting boundaries. His desire to cuddle all night doesn't win out over your need for sleep.

Yeah, he is pushing the boundaries a bit. But I hear so many women complain that men won't cuddle that I am thankful, and think it's kind of sweet. It's just a little overwhelming at times, and I really don't want to hurt his feelings all the time.

Cuddle when you can afford to lose the sleep. Show him in other ways that you care. He should be able to understand that your not always wanting to cuddle means nothing about how you feel about him.

If he won't respect your boundaries, call 911 and have him thrown in jail. It's just another form of domestic violence that we must have ZERO tolerance for. We need to show the Patriarchy that we aren't going to put up with their shit!!!

Lol @xx, I don't think a pushy cuddler warrants a domestic violence charge just bc he's a man. Would you suggest the same if the cuddler were a woman? Thanks for the laugh though.

My bf does the same thing, and claims the rejection thing. I just hate cuddling and can't sleep when anyone touches me, so I showed him I couldn't sleep by talking the whole time he cuddled me. I told him what I was doing too. It only took one weekend for him to realize if he cuddled nobody slept. I can cuddle during movies or tv time but not at bed time.